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Garry "Dr" Watson - 02:38am Jul 9, 2001 PST(#282 of 1770)
them's the breaks breaks breaks

Puma Who ?..GRIN

Sultry Brunette - 07:38pm Jul 27, 2001 PST(#283 of 1770)
~It is better to be hated for who you are, than liked for who you are not~

Wow, I'm glad Dave was brave enough to bring this discussion to the forefront of people's minds. It may have been noticed (or maybe not) that I post even less than I used to...especially in Social Lounge. I'm not angry but it can be a little depressing when I come into the Kitchen, for example, and say "Hi Everyone" and try to carry a conversation with 6 or so people that are already there. Heck, I try to follow the current thread. I get a bunch of "Hi (((Sultry)))" but then the conversation totally excludes me even if I make a comment or have a question about the current topic! It's depressing when I'm ignored repeatedly in the Chat folders, no matter what I try or what I say. Honestly, I've been really feeling that either a lot of people here hate me, or that the main posters in the Social Lounge chat folders are kinda self-centered since so often non-regular SL posters are excluded. I didn't realize I wasn't more than a handful of those experiencing this.

I see this discussion was several weeks a go, so cool. I think I'll actually venture back into Kitchen and see if anyone will actually acknowledge my posts with more than a hi, then nothing... even if I try to post for an hour or more. Perhaps this is all changed. I had loved MN so much... but I don't like going to a SL where I feel I'm ignored because I'm not part of the "right" group and make it to a bunch of gatherings. And please, I don't expect to be catered to or get over-enthusiastic hi's and attempts at making me see how much people are trying. I'd just like to be able to be a regular "part" of a conversation and not an ignored observer.

Sad part is I really like all the people that I feel the most left out by... :o(

Anyway... I'll give it a chance again. :o) And if I'm ignored as I have been repeatedly in the past, then at least I can search out those that have posted here and felt ignored also... and we can have a friendly conversation where we're all included. :o)

Ze Moi - 07:45pm Jul 27, 2001 PST(#284 of 1770)
"I'm reaching up and reaching out. I'm reaching for the random or whatever will bewilder me." --Tool

That's why I've committed to JB...

kirsten b - 08:17pm Jul 27, 2001 PST(#285 of 1770)

Sultry, I love talking to you. Hop on IM anytime. I am here quite a bit.

Shelly Dee - 11:02pm Jul 27, 2001 PST(#286 of 1770)
Your value has nothing to do with your valuables.


You live by the sword...You die by the sword. Bummer, No?

Perhaps you should take a tour of MN archives and peek at how many times you "included" people in your posts vs. how many times you "excluded" people, or ran people off.

Whether deliberate or not, you are just as "guilty" as the rest of us of being exclusionary.

I find it astounding that you feel the brunt of the very thing you have participated in.

Sometimes posts get missed, sometimes they are deliberately ignored...sometimes people respond in a downright rude manner.

That's life.

Deal with it.

The rest of us have had too.

Mimi - 12:01am Jul 28, 2001 PST(#287 of 1770)

Sultry, come back to MN, I've missed you!

Dave Batchelder - 08:24am Jul 28, 2001 PST(#288 of 1770)
"Fragile. Do not drop." - Found on Boeing 757

*slaps forehead*

Sultry Brunette - 02:34pm Jul 28, 2001 PST(#289 of 1770)
~It is better to be hated for who you are, than liked for who you are not~

Wow, Shelly, that was certainly something I didn't expect. I do not recall ever intentionally excluding someone from my posts during a conversation in a chat area.

If I have given that impression, I apologize. I chat in the chat areas on occasion, and have found myself often not even posting at all to avoid the very thing Gumbie was worried about... running off very quickly with little or no notice. I get numerous interuptions and often don't even have the 5 seconds necessary to type a "see ya" or "brb" post. So when someone disappears and never responds that is NOT what I was referring to. If this is in question, perhaps I could give you the names of the people from MN that are my close friends and they can tell you much the same story of how I have to suddenly leave on AIM, and have looooong pauses. Fortunately, they do understand, as I do when they have sudden departures.

I am astonished at your reaction especially since I don't recall having much interaction with you outside of the Debate folder, and in fact was not targeting anyone particular at all. I quite like pretty much everyone on MN, and was just expressing a similar impression as many of those that posted here in this folder on this topic. I'm not quite sure why I got so harshly jumped when others feel the same way...

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